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Entries from May 2008

Yay Me! (I think….)

May 30, 2008 · 7 Comments

By Badness Jones

I stepped on the scale on New Year’s Day, and realized that I weighed 10 lbs more than I had 13 months earlier, 6 weeks after my son was born. I had gained (and kept) 15 lbs with each of my 2 babies, and I had an extra 10 or 15 that I blamed on my husband, too. I felt miserable. I avoided mirrors. I hated shopping for clothes, and was buying things because I could get them on, not because they were flattering or I loved them. Something had to give.

At the same time I was watching my dad fight colon cancer (it’s been a long, long year – but for the moment he’s cancer-free, so fingers crossed, and thanks for asking!) which made me take stock of my own health, and the habits and example I want to put in place for my children.

I started sorting through recipes to find things that I WANTED to eat. HEALTHY things that I wanted to eat. I started cooking, every day. I severely cut back on the processed foods and chemicals going into my body. Good-bye diet coke. I went almost a month without any chocolate or sweets, and I found that I was able to change my palate a lot. Now, if I want a treat I have one, but I make sure it’s something fabulous. Organic dark chocolate, homemade cookies or cake.

I started eating more fruit. I started eating more fibre. I started to drink water. Lots of it. I started having non-fat plain yogurt (with active cultures) everyday. It’s delicious with homemade granola, or a drizzle of honey.

The weight dropped off. (I think the fact that I’m still nursing helped.) At the beginning of May I stepped on the scales and I’d reached my goal. The weight that I’ve wanted to be at for years. I panicked and started to binge.

I don’t know what happened….I was just so frightened that I’d put the weight back on….and everytime someone complimented me on my weight loss I ran straight back to the fridge. I put 4 lbs back on. I took 3 off. I put 2 on.

I started writing down everything that I ate again. I’m back down to my goal weight. I’ve accepted the fact that I’m going to have to deal with this a lot longer. I have emotional eating issues that I still need to work on. I’m still going to have to monitor what I eat, walk as much as I can, step on the scales once or twice a week. But at least I can do it in 29″ waist jeans.

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Because somebody has to be the bad guy

May 30, 2008 · 2 Comments

By Jen (a.k.a. The Enforcer)

Just a reminder that Fight the Fluffy only works if EVERYONE participates. That means every single person listed on the right hand side of this screen. After y’all pretty much unanimously decided that you wanted to keep FtF going, we set two easy guidelines regarding posting and commenting. To remind you, they are:

  • I encourage you all to post at least once a month, if not twice or more. Don’t feel like you have to post just for the sake of doing so, but please let us know how you’re doing, share interesting news articles and recipes, and just generally keep the content going on this blog.
  • I also ask you to comment. It’s not time consuming or difficult, so do it.

So, I’m asking nicely for you to hold up your end of the bargain, please, pretty please. If you haven’t posted in the past month, please do in the next week or so.

(But don’t everyone do it all at once, let’s keep it to about three posts/day.)

And, if you haven’t been commenting, please stop lurking. Because I can see the stats and I know you’re out there.

Thank you, and have a nice day.

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Another small victory

May 29, 2008 · 4 Comments

Quickly jotted down by Apple

A few years back, I decided I wanted a new wedding set. After some shopping, I finally found a white gold set I liked with a bigger diamond than the one on the engagement ring I was given back when my hubby and I were poor teenagers livin’ on nothing but ramen noodles and love. I gained a bit of weight (a BIG bit) and those rings didn’t really fit anymore without causing my finger to look like a miniature eggplant. Because of an intricate design on the band, resizing them wasn’t an option. Of course, since I bought new rings, he wanted a new one too. I’ve worn the new set daily since we bought it and the rings we were actually married with have been sitting in my jewelry box staying safe.

Tonight as I was washing dishes, my rings fell off. They had been feeling looser lately so I stuck them in my pocket until I was done with the dishes and then I got the old set out of the jewelry box. I looked them over a bit and then very bravely slid my first wedding band onto my finger. It fit. Next went the teeeny tiiiny diamond engagement ring. It also fit.

I smiled to myself, put the white gold rings into the jewelry box and enjoyed being able to wear my old wedding rings again. It really is the little victories that make this all worth it.

Apple Joos

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How fat?

May 27, 2008 · 6 Comments

by Grace Ellen

My 5 foot body weighed in at 150 pounds when I stepped on the scale at my first pre-natal doctor’s appointment. I’d only been knocked up for five weeks, so I couldn’t blame my weight on the blob that was already cooking in my belly and making me miserably ill.

A week later, 149. Three weeks after that, 147, then 145, all the way down to 138 somewhere in the fourth or fifth month. I knew I was supposed to be gaining weight, and I in no way wanted to harm the little terrorist causing me to spent 15+ minutes each morning with my head over the toilet, but I was secretly pleased when my face looked a little thinner in the mirror. My arms didn’t feel quite as suffocated in my sleeves. It was the second easiest weight loss I have ever experienced.

The easiest weight loss came in the days after my child was born. I was amazed when I took my first shower, a coworker told me. I looked down, and even though I knew I wasn’t skinny, I still felt so skinny. It was great. The shower wasn’t my magic moment, but within two weeks, I lost all of the pregnancy weight, plus 15 pounds. I was lighter than I’d been since my wedding. And I hadn’t done anything other than not sleep, feed the baby constantly, and not have time to eat, as all my time was devoted to a baby who never wanted to be put down. Once the baby began to mellow, I began to eat again. I ate, and I watched a lot of TV in those first few months. My weight yo-yoed. I kept buying clothes that were too tight, telling myself that I’d soon be thin enough to fit into them.

In December, my sister-in-law started Weight Watchers with great success. I mentioned this to my mom, kind of offhandedly as maybe this was something I was interested in doing, and she handed me her credit card. I was stuck. I signed up and began starving. I counted points diligently for two weeks, then counted them half-heartedly for several more. I lost 15 pounds and stagnated.

Then I started taking medicine for ADD, and the pounds disappeared. For the first time in over three years, I broke 130. My wardrobe expanded, as I found myself able to fit into clothes I’d clung to in the hopes of someday. I got compliments at work every day, people asking me if I’d lost weight, what I’d been doing differently, telling me how great I looked. My body shrunk, but my ego swelled (I love compliments). I felt attractive, or would have had I not still had a wardrobe belonging to a frumpy troll, and I felt thin. Not only did I feel like I looked good, other people acknowledged it. They validated my weight loss and occasional hard work. Then it hit me: If all of these people are telling me how great I look, how skinny I am, exactly how fat had I been?

Wow, I must have looked awful, I thought, and chastised myself for being prideful over my medicated weight loss. I wondered: Was it recently had a baby fat? Was it needs surgery fat?  Was it could possibly be mistaken for an elephant or Hummer with uncontrollably curly hair fat? The compliments, still rolling in, began to have an edge to them, an edge I’m certain the giver never intended. Each time someone mentioned my weight loss, or told me how great my outfit looked, I felt self-conscious. I did that thing that girls do where they kind of smile and look down and blow it off in a strong showing of modesty and mild self-deprecation. It’s nothing, I said. It’s just cause of my medicine.

I told my husband about my new bout of self-consciousness.
So now I’m wondering, I ventured, how fat was I?
Well, you were pretty fat, he replied without hesitation. I squinted up at him. Um, but it’s hard for me to tell. You know, cause I see you every day.
Humh, I mulled.

I guess I just didn’t know. I didn’t see a fat girl when I looked in the mirror, but in fairness, the only full length mirror is in the baby’s room, so I don’t really use it, unless we are visiting The Baby In The Big Mirror (one of my kid’s favorite games). Plus I’m no good in the morning, so the vision I see in the mirror first thing is quite different than what I see when I look in the mirror halfway through the day. I’ll often think my hair looks okay, good even, and look in the mirror a few years later and realize it’s done its best to mimic Medusa’s head of snakes, angrily refusing to do its mistress’ bidding. My pants told me I was getting fat, but I solved that problem by wearing skirts or changing into sweats as soon as I came home from work or simply not breathing for the duration of the day.

My husband always tells me I constantly look for the worst in people, in what they say. I’m pretty happy with how I look, even though I know I’ve got about 20 more pounds to go. I’m not taking my medicine anymore, so I’ll have to actually work for those last 20. And it’s possible that people will again comment on the weight loss. I hope that if that happens I won’t look for the edge in what they say. I won’t immediately go for the hidden insult and start to question how I look at this moment now. I hope I can manage to simply smile, look down, and choke out a quiet “Thank you.” And mean it.

Categories: Grace Ellen

How to lose weight without trying (you’ll still suffer)

May 26, 2008 · 4 Comments

By Jen:

This past week, I learned the hard way how to lose weight without trying. The really hard way. I’ll share this method with you, although I strongly suggest you not try this.

Step 1: Somewhere, somehow pick up a stomach virus. Without this critical first step, the other steps will not occur.

Step 2: Become ill, very ill. You’ll feel so terrible, horrible, no good, and very bad that you won’t even know from which direction you might possibly expel food from your body. (Both ways, as it turns out.)

Step 3: After many hours of one-on-one time with your bathroom, emerge — shaky and pale, but alive. Vow to never eat again.

Step 4: For the next day, stick to a bland diet of toast, water, and (once you’re feeling slightly more adventurous) applesauce.

Step 5: 48 hours after the original sick-fest, move on to regular foods. However, eating will not interest you. Good thing, as your stomach will still be weak and grumpy and might still revolt at any time.

Step 6: For one week (and counting) after the original sick-fest, continue to have no interest in food and a diminished appetite. In fact, you will not even use up all of your daily allotment of Weight Watchers points.

Step 7: At the one week mark, weigh yourself. You will discover a net weight loss of approximately three pounds. Woot! Yay you.

Okay, okay, so I’m joking. (And I am in no way encouraging any sort of unhealthy behaviors that could lead to an eating disorder.) That said, I have learned that it is possible to lose weight without trying. I don’t recommend it, but at least it worked to my advantage.

How is everyone else doing?

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Fluffbuster: Week 4

May 25, 2008 · 4 Comments

Sorry this took a while to get up. Having computer problems on my end, so, better late than never.

Anyhow, the winner this week is…… APPLE!  You go girl!

Name

Weight

Loss

Total

Amy 213 - -
Apple 152.4 -3.2 -4.8
Bonnie 199.9 - -4.1
Jen 194 -2.2 -2.2
Jill 202 -1 -3
Julia 224 - -6.0
Kamaile 225.6 -2.6 -2.6
Karen 204.8 No change -4.2
Kris 268 - -3
Liz 171.4 No change -3.1
Marissa 193.2 - -4.8
MomBabe 214.8 +6.0 -3.0
Monica 129.1 -2 -2
Nichole 169 - -2.0
Nicki 193 - -9.0
Randi 147 - -1.0
Shar 222 - -
Shelly 246 No change -1.0
Susan 180 - -
Tenille 258 No change -11.0
Toni 304 - -1.0

 

Some of us have been having issues with not losing weight, but our jeans seem to be fitting better. I just want to remind you all to take! those! measurements! And to keep on keeping on. Healthy weight loss takes time.  A LOT of time. And the results aren’t always immediate.

The challenge for the week: incorporate a new healthy ingredient into your eating plan. I want you to try a new ingredient at least 3 times. Pick up a vegetable you haven’t had before. Try a new recipe. Substitute applsesauce for sugar. Whatever you decide, let us know how it turns out. the food we eat should be enjoyable and savored. Let’s not waste calories on gross, preservative laden,  deep fried stuff.  Happy Eating!

 

P.S. If you would like to bow out of the contest at any time, shoot me an email. I don’t want to cause any of you to have a guilt/binge thing. ;)

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Good news and the beginning of good news maybe

May 19, 2008 · 7 Comments

Excitingly written by Apple Joos

As mentioned in the Fluffbuster’s Week 3 comments, I gained weight this past week. At first, I was pretty upset and I had to really struggle not to go on a binge. The typical “Why even bother” thoughts crept up and it would have felt so good to give in, but I chose not to. After leveling out a bit, emotionally, I was able to look in the mirror without seeing big blobs of fat. I was able to really just look at myself honestly and it was then that I realized that I may have gained weight according to the scale, but according to my body shape, I was still slimming down. Again, I don’t feel like I have done the exercise that would cause me to build up several pounds of muscle mass, but I don’t know how else to explain it. It doesn’t seem to be water weight.

So, just to see if I’m right that my body hasn’t changed shape, I went to Target today and tried on a pair of size 11 jeans. They fit snugly with a slight bit of muffin top, but they fit. So, despite seeing the numbers on the scale go up, I’m definitely going down in inches. I weighed in at 154.4 today, which is down 1.2 pounds from Saturday morning so all I can do is hope this trend continues till next Saturday and then some!

As for this week’s salad challenge, I started off today with some chik’n salad made with a vegetarian chicken substitute, mayo (though not the lo-fat kind, I wanted to polish off the last of the jar of regular) onions, bacon bits (which are really bacon flavored soy) and spicy brown mustard. In total, it came up to roughly 700 calories, which fit well within my calories allotted for dinner. I still even have enough for a snack later!

How about you? What kind of salads have you been having so far? What have you got planned later in the week?

Apple Joos

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Fluffbusters: Week Three

May 18, 2008 · 7 Comments

by MomBabe

Looks like I’M the biggest loser this week, down 6.8 pounds! I’d like to thank Mr. Disney and his massive theme parks. I walked at least 10 miles every day while pushing 150 pounds of stroller/children.

Name

Weight

Loss

Total

Alison 208.7 - -
Amy 213 - -
Apple 155.6 +2.4 -1.6
Bonnie 199.9 -4.1 -4.1
Jen 196.2 -1 -0
Jill 202 -1 -3
Julia 224 - -6.0
Kamaile 228.2 No change -0
Karen 204.8 No change -4.2
Kris 268 -3 -3
Liz 171.4 No change -3.1
Marissa 193.2 - -4.8
MomBabe 208.8 -6.8 -9.0
Monica 129.1 -2 -2
Nichole 169 - -2.0
Nicki 193 - -9.0
Randi 147 - -1.0
Sarah 271 - -
Shar 222 - -
Shelly 246 No change -1.0
Susan 180 - -
Tenille 258 No change -11.0
Toni 304 - -1.0

Challenge for upcoming week: Eat a salad every day. Don’t care what kind. Fruit salad, green salad, (you should probably skip the pasta salad) whatever floats your boat…. How’d everyone do with the water challenge? I had a hard time because I always get dehydrated on vacation, despite my best efforts….. How’d you do?

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Four weeks down, about a bazillion left!

May 16, 2008 · 3 Comments

A note from Toni:

Today is the fourth week anniversary of walking consistently with a partner.  Two more weeks and it’s a habit, right?  Hopefully it will become one of those habits where I’m absolutely driven to do it and I can’t live without it, like my life is way off balance if I miss exercising and nothing goes right until I walk.  If it does become like that, it will be the first time ever in my 45 years of life!

I recently heard a talk from a gal that claims she “loves, loves, loves exercise”.  She majored in some sort of phys ed degree, teaches phys ed at a community college, is a personal trainer, and she is in fantastic shape.  I believe that she loves exercise, I just don’t understand that kind of fanaticism. 

So today after walking, I noticed that my heart rate didn’t sky rocket out of the recommended range, my muscles aren’t sore anymore, my blisters are almost healed, and I rebounded quicker after the walk.  I also am finding more energy to weed, do dishes and laundry, chase after my 2-yr-old.  My leg muscles are feeling stronger.  I’m scared to say it, but I may be ready to kick it up a notch.  Just please don’t let my walking partner know that.  She’s already trying to kill me!

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Tips for Eating Out

May 15, 2008 · 5 Comments

I don’t know about you, but I really struggle loosing weight while eating out. I have found that I can’t eat out more than once a week and still loose weight. This presents a big problem since my hubby and I are completly boring and our only hobby is eating out and going to the movies. I’ve tried finding places to go that are healthier, but it seems every time I’m choosing the healthier option on the menu I might as well have had a burger because the calorie count is the same.

I found this article on Yahoo news about eating out and staying within your calorie count. I don’t like to copy and paste articles to a blog, but this one is worth it.

A recent study from the University of Arkansas says a mouthful: The average diner underestimates his or her calorie count by up to 93 percent when eating out. So every time you step through a restaurant door, you may be consuming twice what you bargained for. And that’s bad news for all of us: This year American’s will spend $500 billion — half of our total food dollars — eating out. It’s a double-dip disaster: More meals out, more calories consumed, more trouble from expanding waistlines.

I should know. During a single day recently I visited three big chain restaurants, ordered normally, and demonstrated how you can easily consume a whopping 6,000 calories — three times the recommended total. No, I didn’t eat a mountain of onion rings or a whole extra-large pizza. In fact, I didn’t even have snacks or dessert — just three square meals, including a bran muffin, a burrito, and a salad. It’s the way millions of Americans eat all the time, thinking they’re doing pretty well.
 
The good news is you can eat on the run — helping yourself to a lot of delicious food — and still lose weight. You just need a strong sense of determination and a wary eye for the the food traps. Start now by making smart choices like those shown here, and you’ll be much skinnier by summer!
 
BREAKFAST

Breakfast Sandwich
Eat This!

Ham, Egg & Cheese English Muffin Sandwich:
310 calories
10 g fat (5 g saturated)
 
Not That!
Multigrain Bagel with Lite Cream Cheese
530 calories
17 g fat

Many readers have indicated that breakfast is one of the most misunderstood meals of the day. So let’s say it once and for all: Bagels are bogus. Doesn’t matter if they’re made from multigrain and slathered with the lightest cream cheese in the world. A study from St. Louis University found that people who started their days with eggs consumed 264 fewer calories over the course of a day than those who started with bagels and cream cheese. (That’s 1,800 calories in a week — or a half pound of fat!)

Why? Because protein kick starts your metabolism, helps keep you feeling full throughout the day, and gets your body burning calories early and often. Empty carbs, either from bagels, pancakes, even bran muffins, spike your blood sugar and set you up for a big energy crash — and the massive cravings that come along with it.

LUNCH

Burger
Eat This!

McDonald’s Quarter Pounder with Cheese
510 calories
26 g fat
 
Not That!
Burger King Whopper with Cheese 
770 calories
48 g fat

Yes, you can keep your figure, or even shrink it, eating the occasional burger, as long as you know the right one to pick. Apparently the BK’s famed flame-broiling does nothing to cut the calories on their most popular burger. And the massive bun and thick layer of mayonnaise don’t help either.

So, a few rules for the burger lovers out there who don’t want to kick the habit: 1) Four ounces of meat or less. Some chains serve burgers packing up to a full pound of beef, easily exceeding the USDA’s recommendation for meat intake…for an entire day. 2) No mayo or mysterious sauce. It doesn’t matter how “special” it may be, it can pack as many calories and fat as the meat itself. (The only thing special about it, most of the time, is its ability to stretch you horizontally.) Ketchup, mustard, and barbecue sauce are all fine. 3) Can the combo. If you were to add a large fry and large Coke to McDonald’s relatively reasonable Quarter Pounder, that’s an extra 870 calories. If you want to eat cheeseburgers, you’ll have to show some restraint with the sides.

DINNER
 
Eat This:

Ruby Tuesday’s 9 oz Sirloin with French Fries
615 calories
19 g fat

Not That!
Ruby Tuesday’s Bella Turkey Burger with Baked Potato
1524 calories
84 g fat

People pay too much attention to the type of meat being served to them, and not enough attention to how it’s being served. Steak = bad, turkey = good, but it’s not always that simple. The fact is a sirloin — among the leanest of all steaks — has about the same number of calories, ounce-for-ounce, as turkey or chicken.

But problems arise when the poor turkey is fried, stuffed into an oversized bun, and covered in cheese and mayo. All of a sudden, you have a turkey burger with four times the amount of calories as a 9-oz sirloin. Note to all sandwich, burger, and wrap lovers: Beware of the cheeses, special sauces, and dressings. It’s these, not the meat itself, that pack the biggest punch. 

DESSERT

Cake
Eat This:
1 Slice Blueberry Cheesecake
450 calories
30 g fat

Not That!
1 Slice Chocolate Layer Cake
900 calories
55 g fat
 
We too often look at dessert as an all-or-nothing proposition, as if deciding whether or not to eat it is the only choice that matters. But even within the world of indulgences, there can be a meal’s worth of calories separating a slice of cake from a slice of cheesecake, which is why every decision you make throughout the day, from breakfasts to snacks to the moments where you’re rewarding yourself, demand careful consideration.

Cheesecake is by no means a health food, but the graham cracker crust it often comes built on is a relatively low-impact vehicle, and the blueberry topping (usually fresh or frozen berries simmered with lemon juice and a touch of sugar) adds a small dose of antioxidants. Chocolate cake, on the other hand, is a dense wall of flour, butter, and sugar, spackled with multiple layers of frosting made with more butter and sugar and heavy cream. Ounce for ounce, it’s one of the most calorie-riddled foods on the planet.

Make all the right choices above, and you’ve consumed 1,885 calories. For someone who’s busy and moderately active, that means you can lose up to a pound or more a week! (Add in a few bouts of exercise, and the weight loss can easily double to two pounds a week or more.)

So what are your eating out tips and tricks, I’d love some new ideas? Is there a restraunt you like that has healthy options?

Categories: Monica